15 Easy Rules for a Hassle Free Hair Detangling Session

These 15 tips will make detangling natural hair a stress-free activity you can look forward to every week.

When I went from relaxed to natural, I used to dread wash days because it was a nightmare detangling my hair and getting it to act right.

Back then, I just didn’t understand why at the sight of water, my hair strands would wrap themselves around each other.

On some days, it was an hour-long fight to detangle my hair, which invariably led to breakage and split ends.

However, with time came experience and I learned how to go about this without any tears as the years went on.

Nowadays, wash day is fast, easy, and completed in record time, with minimal hair loss. Below are the top 15 ways to have a hassle-free wash day.

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15 Best Rules for Detangling Natural Hair

1. Avoid Dry Combing Before Detangling

Never ever try to dry comb natural hair. You will cry and you will get a big headache!

Always start on damp hair and finger detangle as much as possible before using the comb.

Read Combing Natural Hair and the Best Type of Comb for Natural Hair for tips on combing if you want to do this.

2. Wash When You Have Time to Detangle

Put wash day on a day when you actually have the time and patience to get through the detangling process. 

If you’re in a hurry, you will rip out hair in frustration because you just want to get it over with. 

3. Trim Split Ends

If you have split ends, they cause even more tangles. Split ends cannot be fixed no matter what you do. There are no magical solutions that can fix split ends.

You need to find some time to perform a mating ceremony between your ends and a pair of good trimming scissors.

Tweezerman Stainless 2000 Styling Shears

Tweezerman Stainless 2000 Styling Shears

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4. Section Your Hair When Detangling

Always care for your hair and style in sections.

No matter what you’re trying to achieve — pre-pooing, shampooing, etc, if a liquid or gadget is coming in contact with your hair, it should be done in sections.

When my hair was shorter, I did everything in 4 sections. Now that it’s almost APL, I do it in 2 sections.

If your hair is extra tangly, you will have to detangle it into even smaller sections.

butterfly clamps for sectioning

Butterfly Clamps for Sectioning

5. Pre-Pooing Makes a Difference for Detangling

Pre-poo with a suitable oil mix. My favorite oils for this are coconut oil, grape seed oil, sweet almond oil, and wheat germ oil.

Pre-poo for at least an hour. You can add some other ingredients like blackstrap molasses and a protein conditioner if you like.

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6. Dilute Your Shampoo

Unless you’re trying to clarify, shampoo with diluted moisturizing shampoo in sections. After applying the shampoo to each section, twist, and pin up.

Repeat for all sections then return to the first section. Untwist and rinse out until all sections are done. Do not try to detangle at this stage.

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7. Choose a Creamy Deep Conditioner for Detangling Sessions

After shampooing, apply an awesome creamy deep conditioner.

Afterward, finger detangle each section using the fingers on the ends and smoothing out for about 5 minutes before moving on to the next section.

There is some patience required at this point. If you come across knots, gently work between your fingers to un-knot. Twist and pin up.

8. Detangle From End to Root

Detangle your hair from the ends to the roots, not the other way around. If you do it the other way round, you will cause an alarming amount of breakage.

9. Steam With Heat

Cover with a disposable cap and steam for 30 – 45 minutes. Steaming with heat opens up the cuticles and allows the deep conditioner to work even better.

Steaming also makes the hair more receptive to the rest of the products applied. 

You can steam with Hair Therapy Wrap or a table stop steamer. Both are equally effective.

I have the former for travel and the latter for when I’m at home. Another alternative is the Q-Redew Handheld Steamer.


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10. Detangle More Than Once

Rinse out the deep conditioner then detangle again while in the shower with your fingers or another suitable detangling tool. Your hair should be like butter by now.

11. Don’t Leave Out the Leave-in Conditioner

Apply your leave-in conditioner while your hair is still damp. Work through each section. Make sure all your strands are coated.

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12. Style While Damp

Complete your style while your hair is still damp. Styling dry hair can be a bit challenging especially if you didn’t stretch your hair beforehand. 

13. Air Dry Your Strands

Allow your hair to air dry as much as possible.

A hairdryer is fast but depending on the style and your hair type, applying heat to finish the style might lead to a nightmare on the next wash day.

The immediate aftermath may be dry and crunchy hair. I only apply heat when I’m blow-drying before putting in braids or cornrows.

If you must use heat, I highly recommend:-

14. Dry Hair Hair with a Microfiber Towel

If you want to dry your hair a bit more before styling, use a good microfiber towel. Aquis Microfiber Hair Turban is a popular brand. 

Aquis Microfiber Hair Turban

Aquis Microfiber Hair Turban

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15. Wrap Your Hair Up at Night

After going through all that, make sure you sleep on a silk pillowcase or wear a silk or satin cap.

Read 6 Best Ways to Protect & Preserve Your Natural Curls Overnight.

Final Word on Detangling Natural Hair

This might look like a super long process but I promise you, with practice, you will become more adept at detangling and get it done in less time.

Your hair will also thank you for it in the long run by rewarding you with length retention. Do you have any other tips for hassle-free detangling? 

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  1. I can never seem to get my hair soft after washing without blow drying! Wat product can I use to soften my hair after washing and conditioning?


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